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Cake day: November 7th, 2023

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  • … and you could easily fix the whole situation by having the shed run a male extension cord out that could be plugged into the generator.

    It would also be infinitely more whimsical, since it’d make the shed look like a little appliance with its own chord. Or paint everything and call it a tail, the possibilities are endless.

    “Well, let me just plug in the shed real quick”





  • It might also be the other way around. There are plenty of people who are really introverted, so social engagement still drains their energy, but while it’s happening, they can be/appear extroverted, charming, outgoing, sometimes at exponential extra cost.

    The difference between intro- and extraversion is not simply the ability of a person to talk to others, their (perceived) “shyness” etc., but also encompasses how they regenerate, what and how much stimulation they prefer and what kind of company they need and enjoy.






  • I don’t know what your previous setup was, but given that running resolved fixes your DNS issues, run:

    ln -sf ../run/systemd/resolve/stub-resolv.conf /etc/resolv.conf

    This will point programs that use /etc/resolved.conf during DNS resolution to the local DNS server provided by systemd-resolved.

    Then, enable resolved so that it is started when you reboot:

    systemctl enable systemd-resolved.service

    Finally, start the service so that it is available immediately:

    systemctl start systemd-resolved.service

    You will want it run those with the required permissions, e. g. via sudo.




  • Yeah, you can be a good parent and still miss your old life. Also, your previous life wasn’t necessarily “selfish” - what kind of bleak, one-dimensional outlook is this?

    You can love your kid, love to spend time with them, and still want to go to that one event, concert, knitting group, cookout, rave party, bike ride, marathon, whatever. Often, you can integrate your kid once they’re old enough, and at other times you’ll have to sacrifice your plans, maybe not getting together with an old friend you haven’t seen in a while. If that makes you feel a little sad and disappointed, that’s called being a human being with nuanced emotions, not being selfish.

    Being a good parent is about loving your kid, trying to integrate them, spending quality time with them, all while staying healthy, emotionally balanced and hopefully teaching your kid how to achieve just that.



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