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Cake day: August 6th, 2023

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  • There would need to be more at stake than just our relationship, like a kid or something. The trust is gone, and while that can be regained over time, I’d never want to spend that kind of time waiting for it to come back.

    A kid complicates things. Being in bad relationship for the sake of a child isn’t doing the child any favors. Just gives them a bad impression of what a relationship looks like. It’s probably better off not being in a relationship but still being in the child’s life if the other person allows it. Some instances of cheating are easier to handle than others and there’s no hard and fast rule. If it’s something that’ll interfere in the relationship for a long time, I wouldn’t come back.

    I say this as a guy that has decided to be single rather than settling. Not because anyone cheated on me. Things didn’t work out because of things beyond our control. They set the bar high and I haven’t found anyone who is as good.













  • The only issue I’ve ever had with Eclipse is updating it. It’s only gotten better in the past 2 years or so. The rest of the time upgrading was a complete pain in the ass. Just about every time I ended up giving up and reinstalling from scratch.

    Well, the one other thing that annoys me is not having decent themeing. I use a third party extension and while it does help, there are parts of the IDE that you still can’t customize so if you want a dark mode you have to deal with parta that aren’t ideal.



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